by Ken Norton
Based on research by Bob Anderson and Bill Adams, this framework distinguishes between operating from a place of fear/defense (Reactive) versus operating from passion/purpose (Creative). Growth requires 'rebooting the internal operating system' to move from seeking external validation to internal definition.
Core Principles
- 1.Identify your Reactive Posture: Recognize if you are Complying (people-pleasing), Protecting (intellectual arrogance), or Controlling (autocratic).
- 2.Shift the Source of Validation: Move from 'I need to be liked/right/in control' to 'I am driven by purpose and vision'.
- 3.Upgrade Self-Complexity: Acknowledge that simple rules no longer apply; develop the emotional capacity to hold conflicting truths and navigate ambiguity.
"What got me here is not going to get me there... the internal meaning-making and self-complexity required requires a complete reboot of the internal operating system."