Lenny Rachitsky (00:00:00):
You are ostensibly a professor at Stanford Graduate School of Business, and you shared that when people come ask you for advice, the most common question you get is, "What should I do with my life?"
Graham Weaver (00:00:10):
Imagine that you're walking home from work, you see this bright, shiny object, and you realize it's a magic lamp. And you rub the lamp and this genie comes out and the genie says, "Hey, I can give you one wish. Whatever you throw yourself into with your whole life and your career, it's going to turn out great." If that were true and you had that genie, what would you wish for? At some point in this one life we get, you want to get yourself on that path of that journey.
Lenny Rachitsky (00:00:35):
This whole exercise connects to something that you're a big advocate of, this idea of getting out of autopilot mode in your life.
Graham Weaver (00:00:40):
You're unconscious, and you may not even realize why you're doing what you're doing or even realize what you're doing. So for example, I get up, work out, drive into work, fight traffic, commute, maybe I return some emails, fight traffic on the way home, rush through dinner, go to bed. It's not a day that is intentional. It's not a day where I've said, "Where do I want to be going with my life? What's important to me in this world?"
Lenny Rachitsky (00:01:02):
You another quote, which is, "Everything that you want is on the other side of worse first."
Graham Weaver (00:01:07):
Pick anything. You want a better body? Okay, you're going to need to go to the gym. When you go to the gym the first few times, it's going to not be that fun. The first move is negative. If I'm optimizing for tomorrow and I just want to have a great day tomorrow, I'm going to stay exactly where I am. So many people I see have this happen, where they hit a plateau and they never move past it, because they're not willing to have that hard day, month, week, year.
Lenny Rachitsky (00:01:35):
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